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Rachel
 Oct 10, 04 - 7:42 PM |
Good News!!!
I just wanted to post this real fast! Today I saw my bishop (the leader of my church in my area) I talked to him a bit, than he went to talk to someone, came back and asked me to come back a little later to see this guy. So I saw this guy (someone I already knew, who is a counselor for my church) And talked to him for a while. And I got it set up to go to conseling this week. For maybe a few months or something, and the church is going to pay since we have finanicial problems. I have been wanted this, and neede this for so long. So I'm actually really, really happy and excited about it! Almost so happy to almost cry about it! I know that may sound weird, but I have had a lot of emotional problems for a long time. I might have somewhat of a mental problem because sometimes I have extreme mood swings for no reason that I don't have any control over, if that makes any sense. Don't know if it's just depression or something else. So yeah, there is my good news! Kind of a little nervous about it, but I know this is what I need in my life, the start of doing something with my life, it can't fix my health problems, but I'm sure can help me deal with them better!!! :) |
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Margaret Moran
Oct 10th, 2004 - 9:16 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
Great news, I too finally decided it was time for me to get my emotions under control and have quickly discovered almost all my emotions and feelings are based upon guilt. Even my endo; I feel guilty for infertility, being sick 24/7, and things like that. I think it is really great you are going to a counselor b'cause endo alone, can cause and stir up many emotions that can make you go or feel insane at times  and if you discover that you have a mental illness or something then you can treat it properly. So, many people get a prescription and expect it to take care of all their problems, which just isn't true. Tell us how it goes and I know it can be a little frightening the first time, but since it is something that you want to do and not what someone else is making you do then you will be at ease once you get there and start chatting.Good luck and you are far from being weird for getting excited about this; I wrote on here after my first appt and wanted to cry b'cause I really felt good and comfortable w/ my therapist and felt like I was going to finally get some help for my mind. Take care and may God bless you on your journey for a healthier mind, body, and spirit. Margaret  A HEALTHIER MIND CAN LEAD TO A HEALTHIER BODY |
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NIKKIE
Oct 11th, 2004 - 11:43 AM |
Re: Good News!!!
RACHEL, GLAD TO HEAR THAT YOU ARE GOING TO GET SOME HELP. TALKING TO SOMEONE CAN NEVER HURT. WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER I USED TO SEE A THERAPIST CAUSR OF MY DISFUNCTIONAL FAMILY. IT HELPED ME TO TALK TO SOMEONE THAT WAS NOT RELATED AND COULD SEPERATE THEMSELVES FROM ME AND NOT TAKE SIDES. I WISH YOU LUCK IN YOUR CHATS WITH THEM. JUST BE HONEST AND SPEAK FROM YOUR HEART. NIKKIE |
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cheena
Oct 11th, 2004 - 4:28 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
I too had major emotional problems, which I do believe in large part had a lot to do with the endo and the effects that it was having on our fertility. I too saw a counselour recommended by our church. My only advice, if there is any really to give, and if I am reading you right, is to try to keep the Lord in mind in your talks with this person. I know that I was a little frustrated after my first visit, because this was a Christian counsellour and I expected a bit more of a spiritual side to teh counselling. I guess I was hoping that someone (the counselour) would lead me back to the Lord, as I was trying, but was so full of pride that it was very difficult. I did though, know that I needed counselling because neither myself or my family were able to help me. Not because they are don't care, but because it is difficult to deal with emotional problems. My husband has a diffcult time dealing with somethings as well, and I would have loved for him to get counselling too, but sometimes men can be too prideful in this area. I know that I felt great hope when I made that first appointment and sat down and talked to someone neutral. They can bring a whole new perspective on things. Be open, honest and trust the Lord. |
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Lori
Oct 15th, 2004 - 12:50 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
HI Rachel, I hope you can find comfort in talking about this trial that you are going through. Feel free to keep us posted on how it goes! Lori 
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Rachel
Oct 15th, 2004 - 2:36 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
I had my first vist with him on Tuesday. It went really well! He seems like he might be able to help me, and if not he told me if it wasn't working out with him I can ask to see another counselor. And the church is paying for it for now so that is nice. And he did say that we will talk about spiritual things too. He asked me a lot of questions, I felt very comfortable with him. He did a couple of questionaires and said I have moderate depression and anxeity, and thought I should get on some medicine for it. I told him I really don't want to if I don't have to, but we didn't really talk aobut it much, so I'm sure will later. I don't nkow what to do, I really really don't want to get on any, but what if conseling doesn't help me completely? Well I go in to see him once a week so will see him again on Tuesday! Kimd of nervous, but hope it will all work out! This week he is having me keep a journal of all my feelings and things. Holy Cow, I have wrote soooo much since then! Course it has been a crazy week! But yeah!! Thanks for the support! Wish me luck! :) |
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Lori
Oct 15th, 2004 - 2:55 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
Hi Rachel, You know my opinion on it is to see how it goes before going on anti-depressants as it seems that you do not want to. Maybe take it easy and go with what your gut instinct is telling you on taking them or not. Maybe you can also look into St. John's wort instead of the medical anti-depressants. It is an herbal one and of course you still have to be cautious not to combine it with certain meds or not take too much of it. I took it for a while when I started my herbal treatments a year ago when my health was at the all time worst and it helped me quite a bit. I still have some, but do not need to take them anymore. I am not sure about the prescription meds as I have never used them but at least St. John's wort is a bit milder as far as I know about it. You may want to look it up if you decide to go that route. It sounds really good to write down your thoughts, I know you have been doing quite a bit of writing huh. I hope it all goes well with you, do not feel pressured by my ideas on it, just some thoughts ok. I will be praying that the Lord will also guide you on your decisions. I am proud of you! Lori 
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gabrielbeth
Oct 21st, 2004 - 5:22 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
rachel, i think you and i belong to the same church!!! anyway, i am so happy for you and your family that you are getting some help. heavenly father loves us all and wants us to help each other, especially when we do what he asks and what is right. just keep praying and relying on Him and the Holy Ghost and keep His commandments. all will be right. i'll be praying for you as well. gabrielbeth :) keep america safe - vote bush/cheney '04 |
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Rachel
Oct 21st, 2004 - 6:02 PM |
Gabrielbeth
Sorry if I didn't spell your name quie right. So you think we belong to the same church. That would be pretty cool! What church do you go to then? |
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gabrielbeth
Oct 25th, 2004 - 5:50 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
rachel, i am a member of the church of jesus christ of latter-day saints. i know that sharing what church that we belong to is pretty taboo on message boards, i don't know the policy on this particular one. i am NOT advertising it here, just wanted to share it with you b/c you mentioned a bishop and that's what we call our "pastors". sorry, i am rambling!  anyway, i am so glad that you are getting help!gabrielbeth keep america safe - vote bush/cheney '04 |
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Lori
Oct 25th, 2004 - 7:31 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
Hi Gabrielbeth, Hey no problem talking here about what church you go to! No intentions of this site being politically correct either like some sites strive for. Following Jesus is my main intention and hopefully in the meantime it helps others as I felt led to make the site all because of him. ok, I went off the subject a little huh, no problem, ok.  Lori |
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Rachel
Oct 25th, 2004 - 7:43 PM |
Re: Good News!!!
Gabrielbeth!!! Oh my gosh, we do go to the same church! That is way awesome! Not everyday you meet someone who goes to the same church as you on a board like that! You should email me and we can talk! My email address is smily_rachel86@hotmail.com That's soo cool! And nothing against other churches or anything! Just cool to find someone who belongs to the same one as you from someone else! |
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