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Subject:   Re: new relationship freekout
Name:   Chuck
Date Posted:   Sep 30, 05 - 6:46 AM
Message:   Hi Reen,
Glad to hear from you again. Congratulations on your new relationship. I would suggest first relax and re-read your post ( through the eyes of your observing self ).. This is an absolutely perfect reflection of the process, of how also we attract ourself to our soulmates. Your new relationship is simply a messenger bringing to you the fears,anxiety sadness that come up.. And your thoughts of how hard it is ,is just one of your introjects interfering ( or maybe supporting ) with process. The hardest part may not be the feeling part, but the turmoil in the thinking process.. This is where you need to stay focused..disconnect from the thoughts and focus like a laser to the feeling... at all costs let go of the thoughts and focus on the process, breathe deeply into what you are feeling... YOU KNOW THAT THIS GUY IS A STEP IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION... You just can't be just OK with the situation because it is causing a Major change ( good change ) DEEP within... Just Be OK with that ...and stay with the PROCESS stay with your new freind...
Chuck..
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Re: how can this be right when it feels so wrong by Reen · Oct 11, 05 - 3:50 AM
Re: Re: how can this be right when it feels so wrong by Chuck · Oct 11, 05 - 6:02 AM
PhaseIII by chuck · Oct 12, 05 - 6:51 AM


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