Hello. Not really. I'm inclined to think that you're just dating girls who like to use mind games in their relationships. That is, they manipulate you on a moral level, not directly, but sort of accidentally and with a desire to make you feel better than you were. You should not fall for this, but in general, here is an article what are mind games in relationships that I advise you to read and get more meaningful answers to your questions. Because your girlfriend's behavior is not normal.