How are Nars, users, player, etc...... loser? They seem to move around looking for better supply or victims? And normally attractive looking people (not to be shallow, I'm just saying)

Gabe if assurances of revenge or satisfaction is what you seek I suggest you forget that notion right now. IT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN! Here is one of the crazy e-mails from my ex. It was sent to me when she still had my e-mail. It was sent from a gawd knows where site she found. The first one was the Cheshire cat saying, "I'm not crazy, my reality is just different than yours". The next one said, "Haters are going to hate, while the rest of us live, laugh, love, and HAVE AWESOME SEX". So go figure. If you expect her to get all sad and weepy about your predicament "one fine day" you are dreaming. Hate to pinch you when your snoring but... that's the way it is. The question you really should be asking is, what makes us losers for giving a puppy crap what she does or where she ends up? For me I have retreated. As long as I maintain no contact out of sight is eventually out of mind. Karma does not apply to the insane.

C'mon Gabe. Do you think drifting through life in their way is the path of a winner?