Did your narc have constant headaches? My wife pops ibuprofen and Tylenol like there is no tomorrow?

i get these constant pulsating headaches everytime im around my narc parents, maybe its the same thing

OMG yes. Mine suffered with migraines(still does). I drove her to Chicago a couple times to see a specialist. It always, always, ALWAYS, defies diagnosis. Its part of their deal. It gets them the acute attention they crave so dearly. Probably some remnant of their childhood that when they were sick they got the attention they wanted. We are just dealing with big children you know. Maybe that is what also allows them to be so sexually carefree. Unfortunately, not just with you.

Yes....BPD manifests a lot of psychosomatic pains. Mine was big on a bad hip that would clear up if her girlfriend wanted to go dancing.....instantly gone.