SUPPORT FOR HETEROSEXUAL MEN WHO HAVE BEEN ABUSED AT THE HANDS OF WOMEN ! ( EMOTIONALLY, PHYSCIALLY, FINANCIALLY, OR OTHERWISE ) AND THE DISCUSSION OF PERSONALITY DISORDERS AS IT HAS BECOME INCREASINGLY DIFFICULT FOR US TO GET HELP
My soon to be ex-wife, says the darndest things sometimes. I'll set up the situation and state what she said verbatim.
1. In search for a potential wedding venue rooftop in Laguna Beach, CA overlooking the panoramic view of the Pacific Ocean: "Why would you take me here? Explain to me why you thought I would like this place? You don't know me at all! The mojitos suck here, they're not even any good." She then gives me the nastiest look and silent treatment for an hour. It boiled my blood.
2. We're at our favorite chinese restaurant and I ordered the incorrect Shrimp dish: "What was your thought process?? How could you be So STUPID?? Tell me what were you thinking??" I got so angry, boiled my blood yet again.
3. We're wine tasting and in a tasting room in Temecula, CA and we're talking hypothetically if she were pregnant: "When I'm pregnant, you're not going to be drinking any wine right? And when we go to a japanese restaurant you're not going to have any sushi right? Because if I can't enjoy it, then you can't enjoy it!" Mind you, I'm passionate about wine, I collect wine for heaven's sake.
4. I work night shift, 12 hour shifts three nights a week. She works from home doing her jewelry business: "How much time are you planning to give me before you go into work? You know quality time is important to me. I'm not talking about cooking and eating together either"
5. My mom calls and requests of me to bring her medicine bc I get discounts from work: "You mean you didn't tell me that your mom mentioned this to you an hour ago and you're only telling me now? You're working later and that will be cutting into my quality time with you. I feel like you're not prioritizing me. You can't just do what you want whenever you want to."
6. Going to work out or on a bike ride with my neighbor: "What time will you be back? Don't stay out too long."
7. My mom and sister doggysat her pomeranian for the weekend while we were in Vegas. She's already my wife at this time. She drove us back and it took us 6.5 hours due to Sunday traffic. We get home and she stays in the car. She doesn't come down to say thank you: "Can't you see I'm tired from driving 6.5 hours? I don't feel like going down and why did you have to keep me waiting in the car while you were chatting with your sister for 5 minutes?? Can't you see I just want to go home?" She snubbed my sister, by waving only, didn't say 'thank you'
8. Texting my friend while the car is idling so that I won't have to text while driving: "Ummm are you going to keep me waiting here while you text your friend? Can't you do that later? Is it even important?"
9. On our very first road trip together as a new bf/gf couple We're in central coast california for wine tasting. We're anticipating a tennis match that begins televised at 1am local time. We're intoxicated and failed to wake up at the 1am mark. we wake up at 145am. She's infuriated!: "How could you do this?? Didn't you set your alarm?? I'm so angry and not in the mood to watch the match anymore! How could you do this?? It's your fault!" Wow! First trip together and already bumpy.
10. Our second roadtrip together I take her up to Pebble Beach to watch a golf tournament and we need to leave at 4am. Outside and in the car it's freezing cold. It was covered with ice: "Can't you see how cold I am?? Why couldn't you go out and heat up the car for 10 minutes so it wouldn't be this cold?? Were you not thinking about me at all?" Wow! Second roadtrip and another bumpy road. She gave attitude for hours, silent treatment, put on a nasty face and shaking her head in those hours. Of course me being nice, I apologized over and again.
... yet I still married her. Oblivious to all of the red flags and disrespect. One way streets only know the Blame game. They're perfect specimens afterall...NOT!
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