This guy has some sound videos - just a few are linked but it's worth a browse Dont get fooled again https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1YUkv86n1Hc Narcissists: Battle Them or Walk Away? The Samurai Strategy of Musashi https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eqyx4YJb2jo "Narcissists Re-Idealizing Old Sources of Supply" my riff on a Sam Vankin video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7UFcd4yQV4 And I'm leaning towards this thinking a lot right now. Notes: can we work towards a total cure for complex PTSD? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ws6uTDeWp4o but have a browse of his channel