\\\"But the man who is convinced of his own worthlessness will be drawn to a women he despises -- because she will reflect his own secret self, she will release him from the objective reality in which he is a fraud, she will give him a momentary illusion of his own value and a momentary escape from the moral code that ****s him. Observe the ugly mess which most men make of their sex lives -- and observe the mess of contradictions which they hold as their moral philosophy. One proceeds from the other. Love is our response to our highest value -- and can be nothing else.

Ayn Rand


Nuff said....

Or this
Love is our response to our highest values-and can be nothing else. Let a man corrupt his values and his view of existence, let him profess that love is not self-enjoyment but self-denial, that virtue consists, not of pride, but of pity or pain or weakness or sacrifice, that the noblest love is born, not of admiration, but of charity, not in response to values, but in response to flaws-and he will have cut himself in two. His body will not obey him, it will not respond, it will make him impotent toward the women he professes to love and draw himself to the lowest type of ***** he can find. His body will always follow the logic of his deepest convictions; if he believes that flaws are values, he has ****ed existence as evil and only the evil will attract him. He has ****ed himself and he will feel that depravity is all he is worth enjoying. He has equated virtue with pain and he will feel that vice is the only realm of pleasure. Then he will scream that his mind cannot conquer, that sex is sin, that true love is a pure emotion of the spirit. And then he will wonder why love brings him nothing but boredom, and sex-nothing but shame.