hello, i found your website a few days ago and have watched many of your videos, i am amazed that i have become the victim of a horribly abusive marrige and now see that this is not my fault. i am mentally and phisically abused if i question any of her rules or demands. my family has been negativly effected for 10 years now and all along i was told by my wife that all the things that were going wrong were my fault. now i need to get out of the relationship and need to find the courage to start this process. i have shared your site with her mom and she has been abused the same as me by this vile person. any advice would be great but i believe the answers are in the videos. i just wanted to thank you for the site and what an awesome job you have done getting this knowledge out to people like me.