its not easier on the receiving side. i was in your boat with my wife, dated for 5 years, then got married with every doubt in my mind. i then decided i needed to live my life and she wasnt the one. It was mean, but in the long run you will be doing both yourselves a favor, and especially yourself, you will be happier. If you dont feel it, you are just lying to him anyway and worst you are wasting your time. Trust me receiving is much more difficult. I hope you dont have to feel it. Good luck

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Anyone out there about to be the dumper? I am in that boat. I have been with my beau for four years, known him for six. I know he isn't the one, have known for sometime. I love him but we are so different. I can't bear the thought of breaking his heart and haven't been able to. However, time keeps moving and the longer I delay this the worse it is going to be. I think heartbreak is easier on the receiving side. Somehow you play no role in it. With this you are the only criminal.