Hey Bec, I don't know why I decided to log on, but good to hear from you. I have a year of info to pass on. I got back with my x, at the time when I was getting over her after 6 months of hell, true hell...the forum helps relieve the pain. It been almost a year, and its been a slow recovery of much patience, listening, and trying to understand the other person. But I don't forget the pain, and when I think about how tough it was, I try even harder to make things in my relationship work out. I've grown a lot from this experience and I'm not alone when it comes to experiencing the pain. Either way I chose to give it another chance, and its been better than before. I had to and glad I did, and now I have a much better understanding of relationships.
Either way, I'm glad to help and I will look for your reply tomorrow or this week. Happy new year.