Just like to say that the site looks GREAT! Its nice the see our community getting involved and using the internet as a positive resource. My deepest sympathy to your loss... but, we all know that she is in a better place.
And as for your husband, tell him I said hello! We went to the same high school (Narbonne, Harbor City)... I have not spoken or seen him for a long time now! What a small world to come across your site and find a past friend! He's a good man and I know Cliff will make you happy! May God pour more blessings to both you and the family for many years to come. Much Alofa's, Ma ia manuia, Soifua!
