Treasured Thoughts

In Loving Memory of my baby brother Victor

On an Angel\'s wings

North Carolina

Victor & Momma, if Heaven has celebrations like we do here on earth, then it must have been a glorious one to behold this Easter. You both are thought of every single day, but even more so on these special days. I love you both with all my heart and miss you more than words can say. Happy Easter in Heaven. Love & Hugs to you both... Patricia

A Special Eternal Friend

Dearest Momma and Victor
You must know by now that Joe lost his Dad a few weeks back now, very sad, but with you and a few other members of your Family already in Heaven there to meet him, it must have been a wonderful reunion, the most important though you are all free from pain and at Peace.
I have to believe Heaven is Beautiful, but at Easter even more so. I hope you all have a wonderful Easter in Heaven.
Please give my Lee a Big Bunny Hug and Kiss from his Mom.
LOVE YOU ALL
Sue-Anne
Lee\'s Mom

Victor & Momma... We lost Joey\'s dad George February 27 of this year, but I\'m sure you all have seen each other by now. I know he\'s back with Gladys and Reggie and he\'s no longer in any pain. He is missed by Joe so much. Sometimes I catch him looking like he\'s in deep thought and I\'m sure he\'s thinking about his dad. He\'s lost a brother and his parents now just like I have. We both miss all you guys so very much. Just knowing you are at peace brings us comfort, but we will always miss you until we\'re all together again. Hugs & kisses are being sent to you right this very minute. MISS YOU BOTH SO MUCH. All my love, Patricia

Treasured Thoughts

In Loving Memory of my baby brother Victor

On an Angel\'s wings

North Carolina

Victor & Momma... How often we take for granted the simple things in life. The joy of having another day, the food we eat, the air we breathe. I use to do this, but not anymore. Now that I no longer can see either of you or talk to you like I use to, I appreciate every single day that God gives me. I try to appreciate all I have and try not to dwell on things I don\'t have. Momma, your love has been planted in all your children\'s hearts. You taught us so much and you gave us more than we could have ever asked for. If I had one wish for others it would be to have this same kind of love in their hearts that you put into ours. And to appreciate each and every day that they are given because we never know what tomorrow holds in store for any of us. I miss you both so much. Not a day goes by that I don\'t think about you both. I know you are together once again and what I would have given just to see you run into each others arms. Wow, that vision is so beautiful in my head. I pray that one day God gives me this same opportunity. Just thinking of you both, feeling a little blue and wanted to talk to you both this way. I love you both with every single breath I take. And I miss you both so so so very much. I\'m giving you both a great big hug right now. All my love, forever and a day... your loving sister and daughter Patricia

Memory of a Talented Young Man

My Everlasting Angel

My Eternal Friend/An Earth Angel

CANADA

Dearest Eternal Friend
Close to Christmas Eve very soon, I can't believe another year has gone. Momma Patricia misses you oh so very much, especially this time of year as it will be your first Christmas withou you.
Momma as you know Patricia and I have been Eternal Friends for many years, I got to know you through her, I do miss you too very much.
Please say Merry Christmas to my Lee, and please tell him I love and miss him so very dearly and I will see him soon one day, hugs and kisses to him.
Patricia look for those two shining stars they will be Momma and Victor coming to visit, and I will look for my Lee.

I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH ETERNAL FRIEND
MERRY CHRISTMAS
A NEW YEAR FULL OF PEACE, HEALTH AND LOVE
YOUR ETERNAL FRIEND

Baby brother, I can't even begin to tell you how much I miss you and momma. But I'm sure that you both know that already. And with Christmas Eve being midnight tonight, it's so much harder not having my loved ones here by my side. I know you will always be with me in spirit and that will have to do for now. One glorious day I will be able to wrap my arms around you both once again and know we will be together for all eternity. Merry Christmas in Heaven baby brother and momma. Momma I miss you both so much and the love I have for you is never ending. It only grows stronger each passing day. I love you both with all my heart and you are thought of each and every single day. All my love to you both Victor & momma... Lots of Hugs & Kisses, Patricia

Rob's life for 26 years

Rob, fought the fight of cancer and taught us don't ever give up.

Patricia

Trumbull,CT

Dear Patricia ,
Thinking of you family always as Christmas and the New Year
approaches ~ May you have a peaceful days full of love and memories of your Precious Angel Brother Victor this Holiday Season all the Wonderful Memories of years gone by with your ANGEL. Love and Peace For NEW 2013 much Love Marie


Rob, fought the fight of cancer and taught us don't ever give up.

Memory of a Talented Young Man

My Everlasting Angel

My Eternal Earth Angel

CANADA

Dearest Earthly Eternal Friend
So sorry I didn't get here yesterday.
Dearest Victor
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY FOR YESTERDAY
I know that for what ever reason yourself and my Lee were both called Home at such a young age, was for a reason which one day we both hope to find out. But we both know that for what ever reason it was it did bring us together, and I don't mean just a casual friend, it didn't take long after we first said hello in an e-mail that we became Eternal Friends, there was something in your sister that I always knew, how loving she was, well I do now, we are Eternal Friends, that is closer than my own sister.
I had never met you, or your loving Momma, but through Patricia I do, I got to love your loving Momma so very much through Patricia, when she passed it broke my heart so very, very much, over time we try to think and hope that you have found your loved ones who have gone before them, I am sure that you were there to meet your Momma, I bet there were lots of tears, happy and sad, I just can't wait to see my Lee, please tell him I love him so very dearly, and give him a BIG HUG for me, also tell him I still remember him saying to me 'I RUV YOU RUM' AND I USE TO SAY TO HIM 'I RUV YOU REE', HE WILL LAUGH.
Well Victor it has been nice talking to you again, please give a BIG HUG to Momma too.
I hope you had a good Birthday yesterday.
MY LOVE TO YOU ALL.
Sue-Anne, Lee's Momma

Thinking about you today baby brother as you celebrate yet another birthday in Heaven. I can't believe you are forty six today and that it's been twenty two years since I last saw your face or heard your voice. I miss you so much, but I guess you already know that. I wish I could give you a big hug, but I can't. Only in my heart I share a great big hug with you and kiss you on the cheek. I love you and miss you so much. Happy forty sixth Victor. Tell momma I love her and miss her so much. I guess she already knows it too, but please tell her for me and give her a hug from me. I love you both more than I could ever say in words alone. Big hugs to you both. All my love, Patricia

Just looking at memorial sites.

Patricia,
My heart goes out to you....I too lost my baby brother in 1984 when he chose to end his life. The shock, pain and wondering why are still with me after all these years. I understand them all to well, wanting to talk and also the feelings of guilt when I'd see peoples eyes glaze over when I brought up my brothers name is something I understand all to well. People say "You'll get over it" but loosing a brother isn't like the flu, you never "get over it", they are always alive in your heart and thoughts. God bless you and yours and continue to keep your brothers memories alive as I do mine.
June

Victor and Momma, I am missing you both so much. Thanksgiving wasn't the same without either of you here with us. But we got through it okay. Vicky asked me to say the blessing for which I was honored to do. I thanked God for giving us this beautiful day and being able to share it by all being together. Vicky prepared a wonderful meal for us all and even though you weren't here with us, you both are always with us in spirit. I love you both with all my heart and I miss you so very much. I know you both are okay and now you are together again. That is God's promise and I believe it with every part of my being. I know I will be with you again one day. I just need to learn how to be patient. It will happen in God's time. All my love to momma and my baby brother...

Victor & Momma, just sitting her thinking of you both and missing you so much. It will soon be six months since your passing momma. It's so hard for me to come to grips that you are no longer her in the physical sense, little long that it has been almost half a year. I miss you both so much and you are CONSTANT in my thoughts. Thinking of you always and forever holding you close to my heart until we are together again. All my love... Forever and a day, your sister and daughter, Patricia

Arkansas

Patricia.....you, Victor and your Momma are in my thoughts on yet another anniversary. I know your heart aches and I wish there was something I could do to make it better. Just wanted you to know that my heart is with you. Sending love and hugs across the miles. Sonya

Treasured Thoughts

In Loving Memory of my baby brother Victor

On an Angel's wings

North Carolina

Victor, today marks twenty-two years since we said our good-byes. How can this be... it doesn't seem like it's been this long. Twenty-two years, where has all the time gone. I miss you as much today as I did the day you left us. My feelings for you have never changed baby brother. They have only grown stronger through the years. I know you must have so much love in your heart right now knowing that momma is there with you now. Oh God, I can't even begin to tell you both how loved you are and how much you are missed. I miss you both and I miss not being able to talk to you. I know I can talk to you, just not the way I am use to talking. I want to pick up the phone or go visit with you momma every single day that you have been gone. Not a day has or ever will go by that you both will not be in my thoughts and forever inside my heart. I love you both more than I could ever say in words alone. I miss you both more than I could ever say in words alone. Momma, I see signs from you all the time. I know you both are still with me in spirit and I know you both will continue to be with me until we are all together once again in that beautiful home God has graciously shared with you both. I LOVE YOU TO NO END... BOTH VICTOR & MOMMA... ALL MY LOVE, FOREVER AND A DAY, YOUR LOVING SISTER & DAUGHTER... PATRICIA

Treasured Thoughts

In Loving Memory of my baby brother Victor

On an Angel's wings

North Carolina

Victor and Momma, oh how much I miss you both. Momma I think about calling you every day or getting in my car and coming to visit with you for awhile. I can't do that anymore and I miss that so much. Momma, I know Victor was waiting on you at the gates when you arrived in Heaven. I know you both smiled those great big smiles and ran into each others arms. I'm not jealous that Victor has you once again because I know he's waited patiently for you all these years. I do miss you though, I miss you both more than words could say. I love you momma with all my heart and soul. Thank you for being my mom and for all the love you filled my heart with through the years. You are one special woman and the best momma anyone could ever ask for. I'll see you both again some day when God is ready for me to join you. Until then I will miss you both so much and will try to live my life as you lived yours. I love you momma and baby brother. Tell everyone else I love them too and miss them greatly. All my love and then some more... your loving daughter Patricia

Happy Easter in Heaven dear brother. We gathered at mom's for dinner and got to see your son Dustin. I am so sad that you're not here to celebrate these special days with us. But I am so thankful your are in the house of our Lord celebrating in all his Glory. This is His day we celebrate. I love you so so much and miss you so so much. All my love, forever and a day, your sister Patricia....... Miss you baby brother

Memory of a Talented Young Man

My Everlasting Angel

An Eternal Earth Angel

CANADA

Dearest Victor
I have to believe HEAVEN is Beautiful at least I want to believe that, and at Easter even more so.
I like to think of all Angel's running around on a egg hunt, I remember my Lee use to love that, and although that much older now I can still see him doing it and helping the tiny tots, you must still love to do that too.
Your Mama has been putting your sister Patricia, my Eternal Friend to work, so she has been busy painting Mama's kitchen, but she still has the hall to finish.
I try to call Patricia once a week, or as often as I can, I would rather talk to her than write her. We talk for hours and laugh a lot which we always need.
Because of yourself and my ANGEL Lee Patricia and I have become Eternal Friends, yes we both wished that you both where here, but because GOD had different plans for you both we live through each other.
HAPPY EASTER TO YOU AND MY LEE AND ALL ANGELS
TALK TO YOU SOON VICTOR
ALL MY LOVE
Sue-Anne

In Loving Memory of my baby brother Victor

Merry Christmas In Heaven baby brother. You will never know how much you are missed and loved. "ALWAYS" in my thoughts and "FOREVER" in my heart. All my love, your big sis Patricia

P.S. Hugs to YOU & GRANDMA LEDFORD... Hugs to all our other kin sharing that beautiful home with you now in HEAVEN!!!!!!!!!!!

Memory of a Talented Young Man

My Everlasting Angel

My Eternal Earth Angel

CANADA

Dearest Victor
I am so very, very sorry that I am late for your Birthday, also that I haven't been here for quite a while.
I hope you had a blast for your Birthday with all your ANGEL friends.
I know you were watching over your Mama with extra love last week as you know she really needed all the Love, and Prayer's.
My Eternal Friend your wonderful sister Patricia who I love so dearly, she was so worried about your Mama as everyone else was even myself, no I have never met, but over ther years of knowing Patricia I have got to know her too, and what I know of her she is wonderful, but then you know that.
How is my wonderful Angel Lee doing, I am sure you know each other by now, as Patricia and I do believe we became together because of my Lee and yourself,it was fate, and it was fate that I had been looking for an Eternal Friend without really knowing I was, then one day I opened my computer and there was your sister. My Eternal Friend.
Again a late Happy Birthday.
Keep watching over your Mama.
And please give My Lee Lots of My Love.
Sue-Anne

Treasured Thoughts

In Loving Memory of my baby brother Victor

Victor, your big sis is thinking of you today more than ever as you celebrate your 45th birthday in Heaven. Miss you like no one could ever know. I know that you are aware of momma being sick, I felt you close by the last few days. I love you sweet baby brother more than words alone could ever express. Have a wonderful day today like I know you will have and stay close by us and continue to watch over us all especially momma right now. Big hugs and lots and lots and lots of love being sent your way today. "HAPPY BIRTHDAY BROTHER" Your big sis, Patricia